Hookin’ Up

33149899 Harry has pressed me to follow up on the real point of Sunday’s Style article on the girl-dominated campuses. With fewer men on campus, it’s a lot harder to find a date.

One downside to having college campuses that skew female is it kills dating. If you take out the social misfits and the guys with girl friends, there are slim pickings indeed. And the slim pickings end up setting the rules. Even this guy with the zit on his neck.

Because there is a huge competition for the few datable men on campus, male dating rules win. The article describes a woman grabbing a strange guy in a bar and dragging him onto the dance floor to get his attention. Women sleep with guys right away, in order to get noticed. No guy needs to settle on one girl, when he has sororities of girls desperately throwing themselves at him with the hope of getting noticed.

My first job after college was working as an editor of computer books. I went to the COMDEX conference to showcase our books. The other editors and I were the only women among the sea of computer nerds. I liked that ratio. Too bad they were all geeks. 

There’s got to be some way to change the dating dynamic on college campuses. Maybe they need to bus in the contractors and engineers to even out the numbers.