As parents of young kids watch the 20 somethings march in Zuccoti Park with placards describing college debt and unemployment, they start hyperventilating a little. "What do I need to do to make sure that my kids don't end up in that same spot", they wonder. "What should they major in? Should I steer them towards career path in medicine or let them pursue their passion in the arts? Should I lose sleep about the B in Algebra?" 

The world seems less safe for kids who aren't perfect. For the kid who forgets his math homework on the kitchen table. For the kid who is too distracted by girls to get an A on his biology test. For the kid who isn't quite reading at the same level as her classmates. 

As a parent of a kid with a disability, these stresses are amped up. Is the modern world a good place for imperfect kids? 

Some people, like Tyler Cowen, have argued that the modern world is the best possible time period in history for people with Aspergers' Syndrome. Technology enables them to use their strengths to the best ability. The modern world rewards the asperger-y mind.

Others have said that we have a much better understanding of people with differences, and can treat everything from dyslexia to autism with better therapies. 

But maybe the modern world isn't so great for people with differences. The extended family is spread out and too busy to help. Parents can't maintain a 9 to 5 lifestyle with all the demands that come with disabilities. (Already, I've gotten three phone calls from Ian's school today, because another disabled kid hit him hard enough to go to the nurse's office.) At least one parent has to let go of modern notions of success to care for the child. Carework, in general, is less respected by society. There's no community life that can make room for an individual who can't work a traditional job. 

The world needs to make room for imperfect people. 

(first draft. typing really fast. running out the door. excuse typos.)